In the very starting week of February, our program decided to begin like no other: homework Tuesdays and activities Thursdays. Starting Tuesday after school, we decided to keep the focus remained on pushing the mentees to ask questions about homework, and having discussions about keeping their grades strong as they follow into their second semester. Not only has the second semester transitioned with the same students and some newer students, but many students seem to have a closer connection with their mentors both in academics and personal level. Along with that, I started to notice that because these mentees are focused on strengthening their academics but they seem to always go past the “40 minute” mark after school. Which is, well far an aco placement for us to know they are engaged into the program itself and developing stronger relationships with their mentors.
But as we shift towards Thursday, we decided to make it focused towards more collaborative work. The activity we presumably chose was the tall tower/pyramid challenge using only marshmallow and toothpicks. The opponent of this game is to collaboratively work together to build a tall, yet strong tower or pyramid using only toothpicks and marshmallows. Towards the end of this competition, many of our mentees were able to reflect as a team and think about what some of the strengths and weak efforts as a team. The overall connection we were able to reflect towards the end made students realize that the base of your tower or pyramid is what mattered most. Such as, a student who builds a strong connection/ support system, he or she will able to use these resources to not only obtain much bigger potential than they can imagine with the support of these people, but their goals and decisions in life. Therefore, creating a balance of great connections and a strong focus will not only refers to a strong pyramid but truly keep building as they continue to focus on holding the balance and hold strong connections like the marshmallows do in order to hold the toothpicks together.